Meaning of life

A simple yet provoking thought of trying to unpuzzle one of the biggest mystery of mankind. What is actually the meaning of life? Here, I would express it as my own way. For me, it's quite simple. It is to learn to ask questions, and to answer the questions that you've set for yourself by your own effort. This seems to be a more academically orientated way of explaining it, however it is not so. As we grow up, we tend to experience more and more things, and with each event that passes us by, we will learn from it, whether it is a failure or success that we've faced. This is experience and feel, or known more to be as trial and error. This is mainly due to the outcomes of the events always wouldn't be what as we wanted them to result from our actions. And yes, the very essence of living is to inquire about the past events, and acquire the thoughts and knowledge from them. If one is just blindly following the tracks that other people have set for them, they're not living as a human being, as their thought process is completely shut off. It is the freedom of thoughts, how farfetched a mind can go and how to achieve those goals and dreams set by one's mind. A query cannot be left unanswered, or being answered by other people. It has to be done by oneself. We can fail and fail over and over again, but this is what makes the mind stronger; what that makes the brain think and sharpen itself. As a human being, you may ask yourself, why am I waking up each and everyday, going to tedious chores like working or studying. By then, unconsciously we grow old, leaving the questions unattended. Break the rules, while keeping a safe distance as to not doing something that would harm yourself in the process of attaining the true answer to that question. Take pride in everything you do, learn something new each and everyday. Hence, seek an answer.

Butterfly

As if the butterfly is the most precious thing to you, you capture it and decides to place it in captivity and display it to whoever you want it to be seen. Within this captivity, the only times you'll be seeing it is when you're feeling bored and have nothing to do, and that is totally meaningless. However, think of this possibility where it can be more happy with its freedom where it displays its beauty to whoever it desires to be seen, and not solely decided by a foolish person that doesn't seem to get the value of it anyway. Maybe, just maybe, one's beauty can only be admired from afar, where in its undisturbed nature, could be forever the thing that you once loved to see.

无奈

好久没有写 blog 了... 也没人来看的... So 也不需要那么 frequent 去写。

 今天心血来潮要写... Hmm, 也需要发泄一下吧... 

2013 年真的有好多层次的味道，带来我不少苦恼，新希望，也有一丝丝甜蜜的回忆。 

发现到，你越想要得到的东西，你越得不到... 可能这是我的偏见。但我怎么不会去这样去想呢，发生这么多了我料不到的事情。 在这年，我接触了新工作-telemarketing，也是对我来说是个非常好的工作经验。 也许有些人觉得这份工作很难做，很有压力，但总好过去充当一份需要非常耗力的工作吧。总好过去晒太阳。当然，有很多对你说‘不’的人，他们已经有很多的保险，很足够了。但是你可要知道，当你自己本身接到类似的电话时，你会立刻说一声'yes'吗？是没可能的。生活道理也一样-你需要去说服人的时候，要表现出真心，要有耐心，或许也必须要你拿出那心肝把它掏出来，别人才会相信你。但是，当你已经做出你所能，别人也看不出来，那么也该是时间放弃。人，总不能完完整整的把自己献给别人，来保护自己。你可能想着别人不能做到给你的事，那你自己呢？曾问过自己，我也如同可以那样对待别人呢？也许你说“是”，这还是在你的立场的想法吧。总之，不要要求别人能为你做些什么，也不要要求，自己为别人做了些什么，就一定要有回报。也就是，坦然面对一切吧。 

本来想写一段我今年经历的一份我对别人的爱情，但是，我还未放弃，还是不要写出来。让它（这份爱情）有一个我觉得已经不需再改进的结局再说吧。=)

Defeat is not defeat unless accepted as a reality in your own mind - Bruce Lee